下面这些Tips将教你如何克服“三天打渔,两天晒网”的坏毛病。
1、Don’tforceyourself.不要强迫自己
Thisisn’taboutdisciplineorthetortureofmakingsomethingyouhatehappenbybruteforce.It’saboutdoingsomethingyouwanttodo.Soinsteadofforcingyourself,itinawaythatmakesitsomethingyouenjoydoing.Aruncanbepainfuldrudgery,oralovelytimeclearingyourheadandenjoyingtheoutdoors.LearningSpanishcanbeachoreyoudread,orawaytoenjoygreatmusic,learnaboutadistantculture,discovernewfilms.Trustme:youwon’tgetveryfardoinganythingifyouhavetoforceyourselfeveryday.
2、Graduallyincrease.逐步提升
Throwingyourselffullforceintosomethingmightworkforalittlewhile,butitalsomakesithardtokeepshowingupeveryday.Startsmall,andeachday,justshowup.Graduallyincreasewhatyoudo,sothateachstepalongthewayitstillfeelseasyandfun.
3、Usemomentum.把握势头
Onceyou’vegottengoing,usetheinertialforcetokeepgoing.Thisagainisamatterofhowyouthings.Eachday,showingupcanbeliketrudgingupahillwithweightonyourback,oritcanbelikefallingforwarddownahill.WhenIrundownahill,it’salmostlikeI’mfalling,exceptthatIkeepmyfeetundermesothatI’mfallingupright.
4、Remindyourselfofwhatyouwant.提醒自己需要什么
You’redoingtheactivity(exercise,languagelearning,meditation)presumablybecauseyouwanttodoit.Whenwestopdoingsomething,it’sbecausewe’veforgottenthatwewantedit.Westarttofearitforsomereason,andtrynottothinkaboutit.Instead,thinkaboutit,butremindyourselfofwhyyoustarteddoingitinthefirstplace.Thatmightmeanreadingsomemotivationalarticles,watchingsomevideosthatmotivateyou,lookingatsomepicsthatmotivateyou,referringtoavisioninyourhead.Orjustbookmarkthisarticleandcomebacktoiteveryday.
5、Playsomemusic.听听音乐
WhenIdon’tfeellikeworkingout,I’llplayasong.YesterdayitwasEminem’s“LoseIt”.IbecamesoinstantlypumpedupthatIwenttotherowingmachineandshreddeditfor3minutesandexhaustedmyself.Somaybethatwasabitofoverkill.Butthere’snodoubtthatithelpedmetoshowup.
6、Stopwiththedoubts.不要怀疑自己
Everyonehasdoubtssometimes,buttheycaneitherbeovercome,ortheycanstopusfromshowingup.Doyoudoubtthatyoucansticktosomethingforalongtime?Forgetaboutthedoubt,andjustdoit.Besurethatyou’regoingtodoitatleastonemoretime.Whenyouproveyourselfright,makeanoteofthat,andthenbesurethatyou’regoingtodoitonemoretime.Don’tevenallowyourselftoimaginethatyouwon’t.
Youmighthavebeenathree-daymonkinthepast—that’sinthepast.Today,youarereborn,andfromthisdayonallyou’regoingtodoisshowup.CanIgetanAmen?