If first dates make you nervous, you're not alone.
*次约会紧张？不只你一个噢。
Getting to know a complete stranger is a daunting task, and small talk about the weather or your March Madness bracket probably won't shed much light on your compatibility. There's no real way around the initial question-and-answer session, but how can you avoid sounding like you're interviewing your date for a job?
了解一个完全陌生的人，是会让人怯步的事情。而闲谈天气或者你的篮球联赛竞猜（风靡美国的赌球运动），并不能显示出你俩是否合拍。*次约会的问答环节没有什么真正的方法可言，但是如何避免提问时听起来像给约会对象面试工作呢？
Inspired by a Reddit thread on r/AskWomen, we asked our Facebook and Twitter communities what questions they'd love to hear on a first date. Here are 15 suggestions from Redditors and HuffPost Women followers:
受Reddit（北美著名社交新闻网站）上一则女性*次约会调查的文章启发，我们在脸谱网和推特上收集了人们*次约会时想听到的问题。以下是Reddit用户和赫芬顿邮报的女性读者给出的15条建议：
15 Questions To Ask On A First Date
初次约会15问
1. "What do you love?"
“你喜欢什么？”
2. "Tell me your favorite story."
“给我讲讲你*爱的故事吧。”
3. "What was your happiest moment in the past month?"
“过去一个月里，你什么时候*开心？”
4. "How was your day?"
“你今天过得怎么样？”
5. "What is your happiest memory?"
“你*快乐的记忆是什么？”
6. "What does your future look like?"
“未来有什么计划？”
7. "How are you contributing to the world?"
“你对世界的贡献是什么？”
8. "What are your favorite books?"
“你*爱看哪些书？”
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